When I was learning how to drive, I recall marveling at people that zipped past me at high speeds; switching lanes while laughing or chatting with their co-riders. No sweat! I wondered how far in advance they needed to plan their moves. My new understanding of driving mechanics combined with an awareness that I would soon be piloting a sprinting tin can created a cocktail of nervousness. I simply couldn’t imagine being so nonchalant at high speeds.
I now know that the best drivers stay completely present to what is right here right now. While they stay tuned-in to weather and road conditions, their and others’ vehicles and driving abilities, they don’t over-fixate on all possible scenarios ahead. They don’t become nervous wrecks because a speeding motorcycle just got pulled over, give up if a race-car driver passes by in a Ferrari, or go nuts if a friend driving 10 miles ahead is stopped at a traffic signal. They observe dispassionately, absorb what’s necessary to cultivate good driving instincts, and make shifts if needed. Spatial and self-awareness are handy data points on the way to good judgment.
Bringing focus back repeatedly to this step, that is under our control right now, seems to be the key to ease in driving, business and life.
“You can not catch it, my little Ted;
Enjoy to-day,” the mother said;
“Some wait for to-morrow through many a year
It is always coming, but never is here.” ― M. B. Johnson
